Friday, February 8, 2008

The Tragedy of Heath Ledger & Living for Hollywood

Kudos to Andrea Peyser for yesterday's column about Heath Ledger.

I find it extremely sad & pathetic that it has almost become the norm for celebrities to be dysfunctional. I cannot comprehend why, after reaching a very high level of success, do these people spiral out of control, and either join the looney bin or literally kill themselves.
Just look at Britney Spears.
And what about Chris Farley, Sam Kinison, John Belushi, and so, so many more talented young people who died so young?

Is this the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow for everyone desiring fame?
Who the hell needs it?

Regarding Heath Ledger, I've never seen any of his work, so I wasn't a fan. But many were.
Therefore, his life, and death, meant something to many. So here's the post....

http://www.nypost.com/seven/02072008/news/columnists/his_pals_are_guilty___and_so_was_he_701915.htm

New York Post

February 7, 2008 -- THERE is nothing noble or beautiful about the so-called accidental death of Heath Ledger, a man with everything to live for - a beautiful daughter, a blossoming career, and a Victoria's Secret catalog-full of willing babes.

He threw it away, as gamely as if he had put a gun to his mouth and pulled the trigger.

He was reckless and greedy. He was fundamentally selfish.

Six Drug Cocktail Lethal For Heath

Now his daughter will grow up never knowing the man she worshiped from birth; his parents must bury a son they cherished.

And the rest of us outside Heath's Hollywood orbit are left to ask: What happened?

I'll tell you what happened. It is not easy for a young and otherwise healthy man to die at 28. It takes a lethal and varied combination of prescriptions. It takes planning.

But Heath did not act alone. He had help - and I'm not just talking about Teflon midget Mary-Kate Olsen, who astonishingly has failed to explain why she sent her hired muscle, instead of authorities, to Heath's apartment.

Heath was aided by a pack of enablers who tacitly encouraged and then covered up his addictions.

Cry for Heath's daughter. Cry for his parents. Cry for Michelle Williams. But don't cry for Heath.

I am disgusted that an adult had so little regard for those who loved him that he would continue to self-destruct.

But I am also disgusted with members of the media. Only after Heath was gone did I see damning 2-year-old video of him scratching his skin like a common junkie, nodding off in the midst of conversation, and drinking bottles of wine in the middle of the day.

This was incontrovertible proof that Heath was in trouble. Could airing the tapes have saved him? Or prevented even one kid from taking drugs? We'll never know.

I am disgusted with the Hollywood crowd that covers for him still. Natalie Portman, Sarah Jessica Parker, Josh Brolin and Ellen Page were just some of the heavies who warned "Entertainment Tonight" and "The Insider" that there would be consequences if they showed footage of Heath at a drug-fueled party.

The death may have been ruled an accident, but it looks as if it was a near certainty.

The truth must be told.

andrea.peyser@nypost.com

Escaping the Past

This post is for baal teshuvahs and/or those who had a colorful past before discovering the Torah way of life, or even other spiritual paths for my non-Jewish friends.

It's pretty wild how news regarding our "past lives" (meaning how we used to live our current lives) can affect us in the present.
More importantly, when one sees (especially in bold newspaper print) how choices made by old friends & acquaintances have completely ruined their lives, it just solidifies & strengthens 1000-fold the choice I made to live a Torah-observant life.

I used to hang out with these guys. I might have been privy to some of their activities in the 80s & 90s.
I easily could have taken a different path and went along with that lifestyle.
Then you would have also seen MY name in the paper today, with the 60+ indicted alleged Gambino family members & associates.

Baruch Hashem that of those of us who were tested, many have made the correct choice regarding which road to choose.

The FBI on Thursday, 2/7/08 claimed to have brought down the heirarchy of the Gambino crime family, by indicting 60-something alleged members & leaders.

We didn't learn about "mafia life" by just watching movies like "Goodfellas", "Donnie Brasco" and "The Godfather".

We lived amongst it. I personally am on first name basis with many of these guys from back in the day, and did (legit) business with some of them.

So sad how so many of my former fellow club-attendees, Flatlands Avenue hanger-outers, Fort Lauderdale Spring Breakers, friends, acquaintances & neighbors have wound up being indicted, in prision, rehabbed or dead.

To my fellow Canarsians, if you haven't yet seen the indictment, your jaw will remain open as you recognize about 1/3 the names from Old Canarsie.